Now before you go calling me a “pick me,” listen up… The best way to influence your partner to grow and change isn’t to fuss and cuss all the time. Has that been working or is it just creating more division in your relationship? Yes, he is a grown man that can make his own decisions, but do you recognize that you can greatly impact his thought processes, behavior, and effectiveness with the way you speak to him and the energy you bring to the home? Yes, it takes two to tango, but if you know you